This is a rant. I am disappointed, utterly disappointed with the way the press has chosen to respond to the Canada-China Investment Treaty issue. I admit to getting passionate about things I believe are worth fighting for. This is one of them. It is for the first time that I am so affected by a political decision but this a decision that we will pay for, and a high price at that, long after the present Prime Minister will be done with his commitment to Canada. A betraying one at this point in my opinion.

People like me can idiotically hope that the treaty pitfalls are just imaginary and nothing bad will happen for the next 31 years. Gulp. A long time. Wait, they said we can think about it for a bit after 15 years or so. See, it already sounds better. It’s not like forever. Always see the glass half full. Blah blah… if I had a dime for every time I heard that.

Now, if you’re ready to say “Come on, lighten up” I will politely ask that you don’t. It’s upsetting to see numbness around me regarding this issue. Not complete numbness, in all fairness, some people have tried very hard to raise awareness, but the situation would have required way more intervention than it got.

I was born in Romania during a time when communists ruled and freedom of speech was not in fashion. During those times, many people including one of my grandfathers, chose to trade their freedom for hard years in communist prisons just so they can have a shot at bringing change. And they thought it was worth it. And they exercised it.

The revolution, which was or was not a political coup – but that debate is not taking the front seat in this particular discussion – made it possible to talk without fear. A huge thing which many take for granted. I was too young to remember the relief brought by knowing that you won’t be taken away for speaking your mind and flexing your democratic muscle. A weak one in many, still, at the time… Strong in others.

It took me a while to “grow” enough to speak my mind. To say what I believe in and express it as such. And then I was told that’s nice and sweet but you know, actions without words don’t do much. And then I added actions to my words. There is no going back, I know that much. I am to speak my mind from now until. Until. I always tell my boys that we don’t live just for ourselves, we live for those to come. For those who are already here and are too innocent to see the shade of gray on the horizon. We live in a society.

Now, for the record, I am an optimist. Ha, you’ll say, really? Who, how, when? Me, like this, here. Until a few hours ago I thought it was still possible to somehow stop this thing from being signed until a public scrutiny would take place and the provincial governments would be in accord. And the opposition parties too. Oh, no, it’s not the party where everybody smiles and nods, you might say. And I will say that it actually should be, this kind of treaty that locks Canada and Canadians in for the next 31 years. That’s 31. A long time by all accounts. So everybody should be informed and should agree to it.

So. The deal will be done. Tomorrow. Unless some miracle happens. Which it won’t. So there. Happy 31st and see you next year when we’ll celebrate the 30th!

“Do I have frostbite?” Sasha’s jesty question makes me roll my eyes. Yeah right… His hands are red though and they should be freezing cold by now. We got here half an hour ago and he got busy building a snowman. Mittens got in the way and how could they not, all battered by snow, rock solid and uncomfortable after half the snowman was up.

As we were driving towards Lodgepole Lake earlier the back road turned white and inviting. “Can we stop, can we?” Wet gravel looked dark and shiny. After a few hundred meters snow won though and the gravel slid under all that white. Quiet. Fresh snow and the woods stare at us. We go uphill. And rightfully so and quite immediately slide downhill. We park at the side of the white road and jump in softness. Tracks this way and that, the boys are happy to have winter so close and so sudden. “Will it snow in town soon?” Maybe, maybe not. Weather is like that. I take photos of spikes and water droplets trapped in old spiderwebs and I’m grateful. For the whiteness of the quiet woods, for my boys whooping and for knowing that when we get cold enough we hop in the car and head home for warmth.

Bows and arrows, the quiet woods, there’s magic in it. Quiet no more, the woods laugh with my boys and the arrows whoosh their way through the dancing snowflakes before they plop on the ground. One arrow gets lost, playing hide-and-seek in the snow. Search this way and that, where did it go? Sasha invents a snow catapult and accidentally finds the lost arrow.

I find beautiful daisies, withered and patient, up to their waist in snow. One peeks from snow pressed by hurried feet. Stop, listen, how can we hear snowflakes? Cold and grey, the air has something comforting. “Mom, can we go? I’m freezing…” Tony’s cheeks are red his dark eyes smile with the anticipation of warming up in the car. Jump this way, search for deer tracks “They’re there, look, so many of them…” New snow settles in the small indentations left by the soft-eyed inhabitants of the woods.

A sign by the trail dated back in 2008 announces that there are leg hold traps in the woods. The magic crumbles, and the woods are loud and unsettled all of a sudden. It was 2008, I tell the boys, perhaps they’re banned now. They should be. There’s no merit in such actions, it’s cruel and senseless. Sad to think about it. How?

In the car we talk about salt lakes, living off the land and martens. I stop for more photos. Light is sieved through a layer of clouds thick and stubborn, like an old wet duvet. Oh well. Shy orange leaves adorned with tiny droplets smile at me anyway.

Kamloops is wetter here than ever before. Drops as big as beetles drum wildly on the windshield… Home. Hot dinner and hot chocolate, tired boys rolled in blankets… It rains, still, and I’m grateful. For rain, for warmth and for having seen so much. Today. Every day.

I did it before and I will do it again. Give garbage a voice that most don’t want to hear. Because it stinks, it really does. Before my official coronation as the queen of doom, here are the facts.

I am preparing a presentation for the boys’ school for this coming Friday. Exciting but upsetting at the same time. About garbage. About how much we produce – 31 million tonnes a year, give or take – about how we don’t recycle enough and about what can be done. It’s shocking, isn’t it? There are 34.5 million of us making a mess we really should not. Not that big anyway. We live in the days of disposable everything.

It’s a disposable planet, and that’s how we should first think of it. Every part of it that we chop to make something out of – something that will get thrown out, that is -  is a part of the planet that gets destroyed. The irony is that the planet gets back the part, minus the usability of it because it is, after all, regurgitated stuff. Even that would not be too bad, you could say, it will at some point disintegrate… Not so, not very soon and some stuff close to never. Eternity becomes one crappy concept, no pun intended whatsoever.

Because here’s the kicker: We take resources, make them into non-recyclable products with a limited shelf life – because everyone knows by now that cradle-to-grave items are the death of wealth through incessant marketing – and then when they break down we throw them out. The garbage truck takes them away and away they go. But the trip is short. The landfills seem to be some mythical creatures with bottomless stomachs where we deposit our garbage only to be eaten away and hence disappear forever. As if.

Stuff doesn’t go anywhere. It stays on this planet. It’s compacted and placed in cubicles that are then buried nicely and covered with dirt, enough to become a meadow of some sort of even some bushy terrain. No sign of the undead unless you count the occasional leakage. Yes, stuff oozes out and from what I’ve read it is not pretty. How could it be, it’s garbage. That’s why we are throwing it out after all, right?

Methane gas produced by garbage can be captured and used as fuel. Nice and dandy but that still does not address the actual problem: the increased amounts of garbage choking life as we know it. Just like recycling does not truly address the problem of over-consumption.

What to do? Buy less, buy quality, resist upgrading if your life does not depend on it, recycle, compost, buy used and breathe cleaner air. Because what you throw ends up in your body as water or air at some point anyway.

We are what we eat and we are what we throw out.